You forgot the name of your new receptionist at work.You told your adolescent son to go to hell.) Then kneel on the bed.Your man spanks you using his hand or a hairbrush or a not-too-scary disciplinary accessory. A smart smack on the butt creates a tingly, alert sensation that combines well with the other feelings of sex.
It's scary at first, but if he's gentle you will not get nicked. Why: Even though guys know what they see in porn isn't realistic, you'd be amazed at what a little one-time novelty can do for your sex life.
Variation: Shave yourself without telling your partner, and let him discover what you've done.
Why: First, it's a blast from the past in the What to play: Hearts Are Wild, for example, is a love adventure game for two players; it comes with a game board, card decks, cinnamon massage oil, a blindfold, and a feather tickler.
Around the World in Bed comes with a dart board and male and female cutout figures to stick on the wall.
So don't play this game if you're using condoms or a diaphragm.
You need: Scissors, a brand-new razor, and shaving cream. First, take a hot bath to soften your skin and hair. Third, lie on the bed or on a table and let that shaving expert, your mate, foam you up and shave you.
Why: There’s nothing wrong with indulging in some cheesy porn stereotypes. For whatever interval you choose, tease each other with kissing, touching, and other forms of foreplay.
But no matter what, absolutely do not allow penetration until that much time has elapsed.
What You Need: A hat (or small jar or bowl), small pieces of paper, and a pen How to Play: Each of you will write down fantasies you have yet to share with your partner, be it having sex in a certain part of the house or trying out a new position.
Put the slips of paper into the hat, then take turns unfolding them, one by one.
You can get extra-long ties and be tied to the legs of the bed.