Back when I was shy around girls, I remember reading things like That type of advice would be great for someone who was already a blabbermouth, but how about the guy who is ACTUALLY SHY?
They become infatuated with a girl just based on how she looks from a distance.
They haven’t even talked to her yet, yet they start to imagine a future together with her.
The truth is, by having an attitude of feeling undeserving of more experienced girls, then you are only sabotaging yourself.
If you have grown up somewhat shy and socially awkward, then it will be almost inevitable that most girls will be more experienced than you.
What about the guy who’s smart enough to know that nothing really bad can happen, but he still feels that overwhelming anxiety that stops him every time?
Eventually I realized most of the people typing this stuff up had never been shy around girls themselves, they had just thrown up a webpage to make some quick money.
In order to “catch up,” you need to start to talk to, and become involved with, these girls. The fact that you are less experienced than average does not mean girls do not like you. Remember the first key lesson: The less valuable you think you are compared to someone, the more shy you will feel around them.
It just means that you have some catching up to do because of your shyness or social anxiety. Inferiority makes you feel not entitled to be confident and express your personality.
Most guys feel a little nervous around the girls they like, but they’re able to take a deep breath, push through it, and become comfortable with them over time. This post is for the guys who feel really anxious, scared and inhibited around girls.
If you get a strong physical feeling of anxiety when you think of talking to a girl you like, or you feel a powerful, paralyzing hesitation when you want to approach or ask out a girl, then this post is for you.
Would you think that a lottery winner was superior to you?