Such an ‘untimely’ meeting actually happens in perfect Divine Timing and is intended to catalyze both twins into tremendous spiritual growth.As such, it does not follow any ‘rules’ that the human ego has invented to control and define love.As Birgit Andersen once explained so beautifully: “Many in karmic relationships have an outer appearance, which is not the truth about their marriage; they build up an image of a loving, lovely couple, which holds no water – old habits, fear stick them together, but sooner or later the glue cannot stick them together any more.
It is especially important to be vigilant about this on Internet forums; keeping in mind that joining a group or page does not necessarily mean everyone you encounter there is going to have an intimate, personal understanding of how the Twin Flame connection works and manifests.
Many are going to have little to no genuine insight on the subject, and yet will comment with their Egoic two cents; I’m sure you see how that can become problematic.
You can try to delete them from your life all you want, and you may be successful at cutting all external ties, but the connection won’t allow you to forget them or move on from them internally; it is not an external connection, it is an internal connection and therefore does not require the external to exist.
If it were that ‘easy’ to forget and move on we would not be catalyzed into such great change.
Take as much time as you need and don’t jump to conclusions nor harbor expectations.
You will know in time, it’s something you can not deny as time passes and you grow closer to yourself and your Twin simultaneously.
Translation: not compromising your or their integrity by ‘cheating’ or deliberately breaking up their marriage, but rather leaving it to them to work out their own issues in their time and way. This is one reason why many Twins experience separation…it is why my Twin and I are separated…neither one of us will interfere in the life of the other or play the role of ‘the other man/woman.’ Does that mean we don’t feel the love, and the pull? The connection with your Twin will always be there and as you work on yourselves the Universe will make everything fall into place, you do not have to worry about or plan a thing.
If you are meant to be with Soul Mates before or instead of your Twin in this lifetime they will come into your life, but that does not mean they are going to be ‘perfect’ or fit egoic ‘dating criteria.’ Many people get attached to these labels and ideals (ie.
You will know them when you see them as they are generally critical and condemning of anything that has been deemed ‘bad’ or is not in alignment with 3D reality.